And truthfully it is hard!!! I can speak from experience that by THIS time in the game (very early) you are HEAVILY invested in this guy. For now, my thoughts on episode two! … There was the classic fight and girl talk over not getting enough alone time with Ben. Is it just me or is this Bachelor season off to a boring start? I know it’s hard to determine or have much of an opinion still … but those first dates were boring in my opinion!!! To be honest, thinking back… it always takes a few episodes to get hooked.